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Growing Zones
Everything about You and Me Forever® Astilbe is charming. The botanical name is Astilbe chinensis, and this plant boasts some of the most unique flowers that bloom from spring through summer. Pyramidal flower plumes have a fuzzy texture, adding to the whimsy of this plant. The stems are densely packed with tiny, deep red flowers that open in succession, starting at the bottom and working their way up. The charming flowers are anchored by a mound of dark green foliage with finely serrated edges.
This clump-forming perennial plant adds vibrant color and height to a border or bed. Plant it near the middle or back of a mixed bed so the bold flower plumes will stand above other plants, or group several astilbes for a larger impact. Trim the flowers to display in a vase and dry them for continued use. Astilbe works well in a woodland or cottage-themed garden. The flowers support pollinators, making this plant a good pick for a butterfly garden. Deer tend to leave astilbe alone for worry-free growing in rural and wooded areas. You and Me Forever® Astilbe grows in zones 3 through 8.
You and Me Forever® Astilbe Care
Plant in full to part sun so the red flowers can brighten up a dark area. Morning sun and afternoon shade are ideal in warm climates. Provide rich, moist, well-drained soil. New plants need damp but not soggy conditions. Established plants are drought tolerant, but appreciate water during a dry period to support continued growth. Apply a layer of mulch to retain moisture. Use a slow-release fertilizer in the spring.
The faded flower stalks continue to provide color and texture, so deadheading isn’t necessary. Trim all growth to ground level after the first frost. Astilbe can overwhelm a space, so divide the plants every few years in fall or early spring.
You and Me Forever® Astilbe Spacing
You and Me Forever® Astilbe grows 18 to 24 inches tall and 18 inches wide. Astilbe chinensis spreads quickly, so space plants 18 to 24 inches apart. The clumps will fill in empty areas before long.
You and Me Forever Astilbe Information
USDA Hardiness Zones: 3 - 8 |
Plant Type: |
Light Exposure: Full Sun (At Least 6 Hours Of Direct Sunlight) |
Mature Height: 18 - 24 Inches |
Mature Spread: 18 Inches |
Spacing: 18 Inches |
Habit: Mounded, Upright |
Flower Color(s): Red |
Flower Description: Rich red flowers |
Bloom Period: Spring to Summer |
Foliage Type: Herbaceous |
Foliage Color(s): Green |
Foliage Description: Green Shades |
Seasonal Interest: Spring Flowering, Summer Flowering |
Watering: Average |
Resists: Deer |
Tolerates: N/A |
Attracts: Bees, Butterflies |
Container Role: |
Uses: Borders, Mass Planting |
Features: Attracts Pollinators |
Brand: |
Common Name: You and Me Forever Astilbe |
Other Name(s): False Goatsbeard and False Spirea |
Scientific Name: Astilbe chinensis You and Me Forever® |
- SKU:
- 1231020194-pc
Please Note: The pictures below are to give a general representation of the different container sizes. The actual size/ages of plants are estimates and will vary based on type of plant, time of year, last pruning & many other factors.

Also Known As:
Quart
Plant Age:
~ 6 months - 1 year
Plant Size:
~ 4"-8"
Pot Size:
~ 4.75"H x 4.5"W
Volume:
1.50 quarts

Also Known As:
2.5 Quart Pot
Plant Age:
~ 1 - 2 years old
Plant Size:
~ 8"-12"
Pot Size:
~ 6.5"H x 6.5"W
Volume:
2.20-2.30 quarts

Also Known As:
#1 Container
1 Gallon
Plant Age:
~ 1 - 2 years old
Plant Size:
~ 10"-14"
Pot Size:
~ 7"H x 7.75"W
Volume:
2.26-3.73 quarts

Also Known As:
#2 Container
2 Gallon
Plant Age:
~ 1.5 - 3 years old
Plant Size:
~ 12"-18"
Pot Size:
~ 9.5"H x 9.5"W
Volume:
1.19-1.76 gallons

Also Known As:
#3 Container
3 Gallon
Plant Age:
~ 2 - 4 years old
Plant Size:
~ 12"-30"
Pot Size:
~9.5"H x 11"W
Volume:
2.32-2.76 gallons

Also Known As:
#5 Container
5 Gallon
Plant Age:
~3-4 years old
Plant Size:
~ 20" - 60"
Pot Size:
~11" H x 10 1/2” W
Volume:
3.5 - 4 gallons

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Pre-ordered plants are scheduled to ship in Spring 2025. We carefully plan our shipping dates based on your USDA Plant Hardiness Zone to ensure optimal planting conditions upon arrival. Want it sooner/later? Reach out, and we'll try our best to accommodate.
Estimated ship week for pre-ordered plants will ship based on growing zones as shown below.
Growing Zone | Estimated Ship Week |
---|---|
Zone 10 | March 24th |
Zone 9 | March 31st |
Zone 8 | April 7th |
Zone 7 | April 14th |
Zone 6b | April 21st |
Zone 6a | April 28th |
Zone 5b | May 5th |
Zone 5a | May 12th |
Zone 4 | May 19th |
Zone 3 | May 26th |
Note: These are only estimated ship dates. Plants may ship out later depending on weather & growing conditions of the plant.
Note: Only plants indicated as pre-order will ship as shown above. All other plants and hard goods will ship as normal.
Plants that are currently in stock typically ship within 2-7 business days after your order is placed.