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Mature Height

Mature Spread

Growing Zones
Feathery white flowers have a fuzzy texture and bloom from spring into summer, making the You and Me Together® Astilbe a welcome addition to an outdoor space. The upright flowers are broad near the bottom and narrow at the top. The Astilbe chinensis You and Me Together® boasts more blooms than other Astilbe varieties for a showy impact. Broad green leaves anchor the white flowers and provide color throughout the summer.
The white flower plumes add texture to a mixed bed and pair well with practically any garden design. Create a stunning mass planting by grouping several Astilbe together. This clump-forming plant will gradually spread and fill in a bed or a container; plant it as a ‘thriller’. Butterflies enjoy the flowers, and deer leave the plant alone. Grow You and Me Together® Astilbe in zones 3 through 8.
You and Me Together® Astilbe Care
Plant You and Me Together® Astilbe in full sun to part shade. A site with morning sun and afternoon shade is ideal. This perennial prefers slightly acidic soil that is moist and well drained to support prolific blooming. Deeply water the plant weekly when the top layer of the soil is dry. Increase watering frequency during a dry spell. Apply a thick layer of organic mulch to support growth and retain moisture.
Divide plants in the spring every few years as the Astilbe spreads. Leave the faded growth in place throughout the winter and remove it in late spring before new growth emerges. Prune the plant after the flowers fade to maintain a tidy look and possibly encourage another flush of flowers.
You and Me Together® Astilbe Spacing
The You and Me Together® Astilbe reaches 18 to 24 inches tall and spreads 18 inches wide. Create a dense planting by spacing plants 18 inches apart or leaving more room; these clump-forming plants will fill the empty areas.
You and Me Together Astilbe Information
USDA Hardiness Zones: 3 - 8 |
Plant Type: |
Light Exposure: Full Sun (At Least 6 Hours Of Direct Sunlight) |
Mature Height: 18 - 24 Inches |
Mature Spread: 18 Inches |
Spacing: 18 Inches |
Habit: Mounded, Upright |
Flower Color(s): White |
Flower Description: White Shades |
Bloom Period: Spring to Summer |
Foliage Type: Herbaceous |
Foliage Color(s): Green |
Foliage Description: Green Shades |
Seasonal Interest: Spring Flowering, Summer Flowering |
Watering: Average |
Resists: Deer |
Tolerates: N/A |
Attracts: Bees, Butterflies |
Container Role: |
Uses: Borders, Mass Planting |
Features: Attracts Pollinators |
Brand: |
Common Name: You and Me Together Astilbe |
Other Name(s): False Goatsbeard and False Spirea |
Scientific Name: Astilbe chinensis You and Me Together® |
- SKU:
- 1231020193-pc
Please Note: The pictures below are to give a general representation of the different container sizes. The actual size/ages of plants are estimates and will vary based on type of plant, time of year, last pruning & many other factors.

Also Known As:
Quart
Plant Age:
~ 6 months - 1 year
Plant Size:
~ 4"-8"
Pot Size:
~ 4.75"H x 4.5"W
Volume:
1.50 quarts

Also Known As:
2.5 Quart Pot
Plant Age:
~ 1 - 2 years old
Plant Size:
~ 8"-12"
Pot Size:
~ 6.5"H x 6.5"W
Volume:
2.20-2.30 quarts

Also Known As:
#1 Container
1 Gallon
Plant Age:
~ 1 - 2 years old
Plant Size:
~ 10"-14"
Pot Size:
~ 7"H x 7.75"W
Volume:
2.26-3.73 quarts

Also Known As:
#2 Container
2 Gallon
Plant Age:
~ 1.5 - 3 years old
Plant Size:
~ 12"-18"
Pot Size:
~ 9.5"H x 9.5"W
Volume:
1.19-1.76 gallons

Also Known As:
#3 Container
3 Gallon
Plant Age:
~ 2 - 4 years old
Plant Size:
~ 12"-30"
Pot Size:
~9.5"H x 11"W
Volume:
2.32-2.76 gallons

Also Known As:
#5 Container
5 Gallon
Plant Age:
~3-4 years old
Plant Size:
~ 20" - 60"
Pot Size:
~11" H x 10 1/2” W
Volume:
3.5 - 4 gallons

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Pre-ordered plants are scheduled to ship in Spring 2025. We carefully plan our shipping dates based on your USDA Plant Hardiness Zone to ensure optimal planting conditions upon arrival. Want it sooner/later? Reach out, and we'll try our best to accommodate.
Estimated ship week for pre-ordered plants will ship based on growing zones as shown below.
Growing Zone | Estimated Ship Week |
---|---|
Zone 10 | March 31th |
Zone 9 | March 31st |
Zone 8 | April 7th |
Zone 7 | April 14th |
Zone 6b | April 21st |
Zone 6a | April 28th |
Zone 5b | May 5th |
Zone 5a | May 12th |
Zone 4 | May 19th |
Zone 3 | May 26th |
Note: These are only estimated ship dates. Plants may ship out later depending on weather & growing conditions of the plant.
Note: Only plants indicated as pre-order will ship as shown above. All other plants and hard goods will ship as normal.
Plants that are currently in stock typically ship within 2-7 business days after your order is placed.
Plant Addicts ships to the lower 48 states within the U.S. Unfortunately, we do not currently ship to Alaska, Hawaii, or internationally.
This plant cannot be shipped to the following states: Idaho, AK, HI. These restrictions apply only to this specific plant due to agricultural regulations or other limitations. Other plants may still be available for shipping to these states.
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